30 Days of Prayer For Your Unbelieving Husband Binder here. I was to prove to him that I was a better wife by going to church, but no pressure on him. I pray he gives God the glory in every achievement, and thanks Him for every blessing. The Bible says in due time you will reap if you do not grow weary. Even though your husband’s attitude is not open to God right now, I encourage you to continue to show God’s love every day (win him without a word but as to the witness of a changed life) and praying for his salvation and your children. . That’s really a huge blessing! Download the 30 Days of Prayer For Your Unbelieving Husband Binder here. He continues to carry on with dating and connecting with women online. I am a prayer warrior and I understand what you are going through. Praying for you friend! We hadn’t been married six months and he was betraying me with an ex girlfriend. Pray he would have a softened and pliable heart towards the Lord. I can not give you my home email address as it is also my husbands email we share, so he sees all emails that come in. We’ve been married 2.5 years, but together 8. I get the support and encouragement I need as well as worshipping and praying together. <3 <3 <3, Hi Sarah,. People often get discouraged when their loved ones do not get saved and give up too soon. I don’t attend church even though I tried a few after a two year absence. <3 Keep praying and continue to be faithful to Christ. May 31, 2018 - Prayer for my husband is something that we should always be doing as it helps us to see our husband with fresh eyes. He has become a very unhappy very tormented very evil soul. I would rather God take me away from all this emptiness and pain, then let me live as alone as I feel now. Remember, the Lord is always with you and fully able to help. Now, if he is asking you to sin (or physically abusing you or something like that), then you need to submit to God first, not your husband. I have seen changes in my husband over our 22 years of marriage and I am thankful to God for my journey thus far and for the people has surrounded me with over the years who have prayed, encouraged and supported me. We should not enter into a marriage with an unbeliever. Here are a few reasons why I believe that you should pray with your boyfriend from the very beginning. He asked me to give up God and the church or he’d leave and I told him I’d never give up God and he left. <3. Praying God will give him a new heart, a heart to be open and receptive to God’s Word. Your email address will not be published. You Can Pray to Save Your Marriage, But God Won’t Give You This. My husband want to divorce me and i need help. Take comfort that He will strengthen you when you need it and never puts more on you than you can handle. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband.” You are the closest one to your husband and the one who can make a difference in his life by showing him the love of Christ and ultimately help lead to him giving His life to the Lord. Required fields are marked *, Printables Shop Hopefully she will find it comforting. I believe God wants me to to share a word of encouragement with you and at the same time continue to trust in Him and His timing. May we enjoy the gift of physical intimacy that you have blessed us with. It’s been an absolute Godsend. Reading these comments giving me lots of hope. (Song of Solomon 6:1-3, MSG), "The Lord God said, "It isn't good for the man to live alone. Even Paul longed for this boldness and for the confidence that he was speaking the right and best words. He is right by our side, getting us through ANYTHING. So keep praying faithfully and continually for your husband! It definitely sounds like you’re doing all the right steps. May they be born again and saved, through your mighty name. your love is better than wine. Let him cultivate the habit of thanking you for what you have blessed him with. We have been together for more than 10 years and only got married in November last year! I’m sorry you have to deal with that. He desires for all His children to know Him! While there are clear reasons that God allows for divorce, that is not one of them. I know it’s definitely tough. Church hasn’t changed, it follows the same formula which doesn’t work for me. Being married to an unbelieving spouse can be extremely difficult. I can imagine what you have gone through and are continuing to go through. I love him so much, but now I am not sure if I should still marry him. What exactly are these people praying? I’ve been married for 5 years to a man with a sexual addiction. Hello, Sarah, Privacy Do not be timid in your prayers! Thank you for all of the blessings that you have given us. That was 28 years ago. You’d be Surprised! It is what I needed to hear in ‘such a time as this’. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. <3 I know it's an incredibly difficult road. It has me in tears. I believed that one day God would let me marry a man that would take me away from my abusive home life as a child and give me a life that I would never feel that way again. Sometimes we forget when we pray to tell the Lord what we want, but the Bible clearly says, “Ask and it will be given to you.” Today, ask God to open your husband’s heart toward receiving Christ as his personal Lord and Savior. I can give you my email address at work, but I work for the City of Jacksonville, so if you choose to respond to me, it would be better for you to text me, as my email is open for everyone to see at the City of Jacksonville. I know it’s extremely difficult. Remember that through the spirit of God inside of you, you have power! Definitely praying for them both as well. After he left, I waited around 2 years. Maybe he is behaving in a way that isn’t Christ-like, which is to be expected, and you may want to be angry and lash out at him. Try to help him towards a path of godliness, while not expecting him to be a godly man. Many of my prayers are listed below. My heart goes out to you. Every mom should be able to stay home with her kids regardless of income. Two years on, I have started to attend another church but again, I feel alone in the house of God. I went through a divorce many years ago because I had accepted Jesus as my Lord and my husband just couldn’t handle it. Prayer for a Friend. Abuse is never okay, and I would encourage you to remove yourself from the situation if you can to keep yourself safe. I thank God for leading me to your 30 day prayer for the unsaved spouse,I finished it on this past Sunday December 1,it was so good,I heard the holy ghost spoke to me in Sunday morning worship(he said the weight of the world have been lifted)my husband and I have been separated for a little over 4 months now,he choosing to keep the cycle going about I put him out our apartment,which I did,I ask for forgiveness and I prayed about and ask my husband and God to forgive me,I know God has forgiven me but my Husband keep saying I put him out,that’s what he keep using to stay out in the street,also I have forgiven myself,this past Sunday I gotten photos of him and another woman,we are still married today and he is not in the home with me I am sure he is with the other woman,I still love him and will continue to pray for his salvation,we been knowing each other for over 33 years,we been married for over 8 years,he told me he is a border line diabetic,he has gotten so small when in these last few months,I couldn’t believe it when I saw him,also he had a history of using drugs in the past,my heart goes out to him,I been asking him to come home so he can take better care of himself,he keep saying he will come back when he ready because I put him out,continue to stand in agreement with us,I won’t give up on us or our marriage,as long as God continue to order my steps on what to do,your ministry I love the 30 day prayers it helped me as well to learn how to be a better wife also,I hope we can get through this test and move forward in our life,I miss him so much be at home,it’s the smallest things we miss about a person,continue to pray and believe God with us. Also, prayer for my boyfriend success is the perfect thing to send to your boyfriend to bust his courage. So, I remained married, and prayed. If you are trying to do everything in your own power, stop! All three of my teenage children have turned their backs on Jesus and they think I’m a looney. He will lead and guide you. I can definitely say do NOT bring children into this situation with it being the way it is. Don’t give up on this fight. I prayed for him throughout the years anyway because I wouldn’t wish Hell on my worst enemy…and we had 4 children together. •• The verse quoted from John 17 makes it very clear that Jesus prayed for lost souls to be saved. The more we love Him, the more we seek His will, the more our desires line up to His. Ask God to help you be an encouragement to your husband and to your family today. I love my husband and I want us to become closer and for him to see a dramatic change in me… I found the Lord after our marriage! Sunny, I am so thrilled to hear this news. Dear Sister I couldn’t have done it without them. I pray for him daily and God is good. Today, ask Him to help you to desire to stay and grow in your marriage and be content. Hi Sarah He gropes my body parts to make himself feel like a man, but he does not realize how that makes me feel. Sarah, Prayer for family is always a very good thing! He makes recordings of me while he's gone, then listens to them day after day, and swears that he hears me talking to a man. Reaching out for your lost children It’s hard on her but also hard on me as a mom. That does not mean you have to do them as well. Father I pray for salvation for my husband. I have only dated strong christian men. It’s caused so much trouble, pains and disappointment in our marriage because of it. Lord, please return my husband back to me. He tells a lot of lies and is so proud of it, few months after my marriage to him he had an affair with a lady he met on Facebook and that caused a lot of spiritual attack for me because I started having nightmares each time he had sec with me, he has a terrible temper that cannot calm down until he has beaten me up or stayed a lot of abusive words to me, he doesn’t care about my feelings, expects me to bend to every of his will, insults my parents and family members, the most painful part is that he makes mockery of my Christianity, I have no one to share my pain with anymore because the times I tried talking to people turned out bad for me, am glad to find out that am not the only one in this, and I need a prayer partner, I have been praying for him and reading books to help keep my spirit in shape, sometimes am scared of what my kids would have to face if my husband doesn’t change before I start having kids, I feel so alone and wish I had never gotten married. Marriage can be confusing and so painful. Thank you so much for commenting. Love Xo. If he doesn’t have a relationship with Christ, he doesn’t have the Holy Spirit to help him discern right from wrong. Theses scriptures are now in my declarations! Share on Facebook Share on Pinterest. I chose to STAY with my husband after a couple affairs. I’m sorry to hear that. In your blog, you say that the wife is suppose to be the crown jewel or ruby, but all I feel is like a piece of worn out furniture that is always suppose to be seen, but not heard. I thank God for your ministry, this is really uplifting, I am facing difficulties with my unsaved husband, he told me he hates my church and he will stop me from attending church. We are also praying that they would experience God's total forgiveness and thus be able to forgive others. Been married almost 7 years, separated 3 times and it’s looking like that may happen again. I had my first child at the age of 19 a, beautiful boy wasn’t married to the father when my boy was 7 months old we broke up because he was physically abusing me. My husband has no respect for me as a wife, mother or his best friend. Your 30 days prayers is a source of inspiration. 3. Even when he is home, he is attached to his phone texting, We do not do anything together as couple like we use too. I have been saved for two years my husband is not. 12. <3 <3 <3, For 22 years I have been married to a man who I thought was a christian. I stopped attending church two years ago because there was no support for wives like me and I got sick of attending on my own while my family was at home. Thank you so much for your comment! I work too and I give everything I have in this marriage, but I feel alone. Maybe you have been praying for days, or maybe you have been praying for many years! I pray he becomes that Godly man and head of my house hold my priest of my home. I want my kids to be full of joy and love to learn and be problem solvers. If only you think that your partner needs a dose of prayer today, then send some of these to him or her. Some days it can be hard to speak nicely to your husband. Keep seeking God, because your relationship with HIM is the only one you have control over. I pray for my boyfriend to have a closer walk with God and to become that Godly man he needs to be . I am glad the blog has helped and inspired you, and I hope that God blesses you and your family as well. It can be scary to have an unsaved spouse!